Affirmations- Golden Rules to achieve the best results
What did you do the last time you thought you had
a bad habit? Nothing much, right? Perhaps just told yourself that
you can’t continue like this. But telling yourself once can’t
really fetch desired results. Repetitively uttering resolutions,
instead, does the trick. So how do you go about it? Write down your
resolution somewhere and go over it as many times as possible.
Repeating these affirmations day in day out ultimately makes you
believe in them.
Nowadays,
affirmations are so popular that you can even buy them in the
form of CD’s and cassettes. It’s great if you, too, want
readymade affirmations for yourself. But it’s always better
to create your own affirmations (since no one else
understands your emotional needs better).
So what exactly should you remember while making
your own affirmations? Go through the checklist below and find
out-
The first thing that you need to remember is the
final purpose of your affirmation. Any affirmation, no matter what
purpose it is taken for, should make a person behave positively.
For the same reason, the tone of your affirmation should not be
negative. Do not use ‘do not’ in your affirmation even if it sounds
perfectly correct. Instead, give your affirmation a positive tone.
Consider this example- you have a habit of smoking and you create
an affirmation that reads- ‘I don’t smoke cigarettes.’
Though the affirmation sounds grammatically
right, your mind may take it otherwise. For some odd reason your
mind might get stuck to the words ‘smoke cigarettes’ in isolation
and you’ll fail to achieve positive results. So your affirmation
should read something like this- ‘I should take care of my heart
and lungs. Smoking won’t help’.
Next in line is how you make your mind take to
the affirmation you have created. Perhaps your affirmation says
‘What I do now will affect my future’. If you actually want to
believe in this you have to read it innumerable times. Remember,
the biggest secret of making your affirmation work is repetition.
But then repetition is not all. So what more do you need? You need
to empower your mind so that it can linger over the true meaning of
each word.
The very first instance you can make your mind
linger on ‘I’. Look within and decide whether what you’re doing
will nurture your future or not. The very next instant you can
focus on how your present actions can actually mould your life in
future. Lastly, ask yourself how you’d like to see yourself in
future. Repeating your affirmation singularly will not be as
beneficial as when you combine that with inflection.
Thirdly and lastly, don’t pressurize yourself too
much all at once. Going through an affirmation might seem to be the
easiest thing but incorporating it can be really difficult. And
this is precisely why you should not aim to improve a number of
habits at a single instance- lose weight, improve punctuality, work
harder etc. Remember the old saying ‘take one step at a time’ and
move ahead to make a success of your affirmation.
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